I will tell you a story, when I was a 10-years old kid I went with my grandmother to visit some relatives; and as I can't get engaged in the old people discussions and don't like the typical questions they ask such as ( do you go to school? do you like the school? what is your total marks average? ... etc) I decided to sit in their garden watching some boys playing football.
I can remember that day as if it was today.. I was telling myself to ask the boys to play with them but had this fear that they will not allow me; then one of the most important thought in my life came across my mind ... I said to myself what if I failed? what will happen? I will be sitting in the garden watching them (maybe with a broken heart) but I'm sitting here anyway ... what I will lose? so I decided to give it a try and they accepted to let me play with them ... after 20 mins my grandmother was calling me to tell me we have to leave ... Oh I wasted 1 hour of joy, 1 hour of fun just because I had these fake thoughts.
I can remember that day as if it was today.. I was telling myself to ask the boys to play with them but had this fear that they will not allow me; then one of the most important thought in my life came across my mind ... I said to myself what if I failed? what will happen? I will be sitting in the garden watching them (maybe with a broken heart) but I'm sitting here anyway ... what I will lose? so I decided to give it a try and they accepted to let me play with them ... after 20 mins my grandmother was calling me to tell me we have to leave ... Oh I wasted 1 hour of joy, 1 hour of fun just because I had these fake thoughts.
I don't want to comment on this story, I will keep the analysis and conclusion to you...
